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*andy76
writes:I've been with this guy for 3 years. On and off. I recently ended the relationship just because it wasn't going the way i wished it had gone. So we took time apart... a month or so... recently we agreeed to be friends and we went to a movie and a few drinks. One thing led to another and we ended up in his bedroom. I woke up early and left.. had to work. left him a note saying had a fun time don't be a stranger. I'm upset because i haven't heard anything from him all day. Did i get used or what. Why is he not calling or texting me... he had a fun night too? He didn't have to come out in the first place. Confused.
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reader, mint  +, writes (13 June 2010):
 I really do not know what you want to here. But you need to ask yourself this question "Can you actually be friends with this guy?"..."Will one thing ALWAYS lead to another?"
As soon as you have answered these questions you will know what has to be done. x
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2010): Probably he thought you were physically pretty but their might be a chance that he didnt really quite like being with you it doesnt mean that he used you he tried being with you and didnt quite like it is better for him to walk away then to stay and hurt you this way you wont get attached to him good luck youll find the right one
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reader, CRAVENINI +, writes (13 June 2010):
 well maybe he just not ready for a commitment give him some time. and if he come's back he's the one then his love for you is sincery.you know they say you either loved some one or never loved them at all.but this is one thing never belower your slef as a woman because you can always get better and im sure you do deserve better to.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2010): You guys agreed to be friends not lovers. You did break up with him so obviously he took that to mean you are not interested like that. He probably isn't going to expend too much energy chasing someone who probably isn't "the one." And who knows, maybe he will call. Maybe he is busy. Maybe he is being proud. Or maybe he just doesn't care like you seem to want him to.
I guess the point is that you weren't getting what you wanted from him a month ago, which led you to break up with him, and sounds like you are not getting what you want from him a month later. Maybe its time YOU expend your energy on someone or something else that does fulfill you and make you feel satisfied and complete as a person.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2010): You say you both had a good time, how can he had used you then. Give it time and it`ll show. Or better still wait a while-couple of days more, call him and immediately you`ll know if he wanted to hear from you again or it was just the night. But try and not judge prematurely, cause the same thougts could be passing his head right now, and he expects you to call. Or he may think that since you ended it last it`s you that should call and not him-like trying to press you or something. I suggest call him, if he wanted to-he`ll be happy as hell, if not you`ll know for sure the bets are off.
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