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writes:Assuming have stopped going and you are STD free (have been tested) etc, ALWAYS used comdoms etc.Would you admit if asked about previous relationships on a date that you have pretty much only ever slept with prostitutes? Been single and never really had an intimate relationship. When would be a good time?How would you approach it?Would you lie?Or is it better to draw a line and try to never speak of it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2010): I believe in being honest but also that some things we should keep for ourselves. I'm not saying flat out lie. But I wouldn't mention it at all. Even if you have no regrets, even if you have never caught any std, the vast majority of women will still look down on the idea you saw prostitutes.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2010): Thanks for the answers.
I'd make sure I was tested.
I'd start off slow, no sex, try to get us both to get tested at the start of the relationhip. To get a fresh start.
I'll avoid asking bringing up her past. In order to not bring up mine.
If asked directly I'd feel quite uneasy about lying.
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker  +, writes (14 June 2010):
 I would not recommend it unless she's likely to find out. And you'd better not be lying about being clean. It's a good idea to let her know you've not been in a real relationship before, though.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (13 June 2010):
I think it's best to leave this one. No one ever needs to know.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (13 June 2010):
 I'd not speak of it until a proper relationship has been established and I know I can trust the person I tell. It is much like I'd not tell the intimate details of my life prior to my new relationship. Such things are to be revealed when the time is right.
There is no time frame for exactly when the time is right, this varies depending on the couple. From anywhere from 3 months to 8 months I'd say.
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