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writes:hi i wrote the other day about being nervous about going to the gay/lesbian club as nobody knows that im a lesbian except my two best friendsanyway, we went to the gay bar and to be honest i was really disappointed. its the only one in our city and it was really small and basically just full of men! i had a good night but there literally were only a few girls there and they were all really butch and im more into femme girls. so what i want to know is, where else can i go to meet girls? i dont really want everyone knowing about my sexuality yet so want to be fairly discreet. i just really want to meet someone for a relationship because ive only ever had flings with girls and want to know for sure if this is the lifestyle for me!!any advice would be greatly appreciated. thankyou xx
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reader, AuntyAlexxmo +, writes (14 June 2010):
 I dont know where in UK you are from but you need to travel into the bigger cities to have a really good gay scene night out, and just a point 99% of people on gay scenes are so friendly. Other than that online dating could be and idea, website such as gaydargirls would be a good ides, just always remember people can say anything online so always be careful!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2010): I am not gay but I used to live in NYC and I used to get hit on by women all the time...at straight bars, restaurants, lounges...not sure why they hit on me. But most were beautiful girls. I got hit on one night by this beautiful Russian girl at this lounge in Brooklyn. I'll never forget her. That was actually the only time I felt kind of like I liked a girl. She was being kind of touchy feely with me but not in a bad way or in a way that bothered me. We were dancing all night and then she asked me to sit on her lap. I did and she was playing with my hair. That's when I realised that maybe she liked me. Something about her was comforting. She was beautiful and she made me feel good. It was weird. Then me and my friend left and I never saw her again.
There are alot of bisexual women out there outside of gay bars, I can assure you from my own experience. If you want a beautiful feminine girl you should stay out of gay bars and get dolled up and look beautiful and feminine yourself. Be and look like the girl you want. Also in big cities you have a better chance of meeting lesbians because women are more open and comfortable with their sexuality. If you are in UK, try heading to London for the weekends. Good luck.
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