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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I'm in a small pickle. Last year I was in a situation with a friend where we became so incredibly close, and did everything together, and feelings built up until we kissed then after a while she decided she didn't like me that way and went out with someone else. I fell so hard for her, first real love and it took me 6 months really to recover from it. Now since about christmas ive got on great with another girl, but shes very shy and hard to get to open up I guess and I really dont know much about her, likewise with me as I never want to get into the situation I did last year ever again, and I've tried not to fancy her. I did bring it up with a friend of a friend who said she'd brought it up with her a month ago and she'd said she hoped i didn't actually ask her. But lately ive really started to like her and I feel something there with us both, but she's so naive and hard to judge at times, I really don't think shes ever been out with somebody and shes not really a flirt, but lately we have been a lot, hitting each other here or there, now her friends before said she fancied me when I walked past but I just ignored it because I wanted to be sure. Now I know I do but I'm scared of the same thing happening again. Any help please??
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2010): Ask her
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reader, Jendorset +, writes (13 June 2010):
The more you think about her the deeper your feelings are getting. Just ask her and see what she says. If she isnt interested then at least you know and can avoid getting into the same situation as you did before.
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