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writes:okay it started with me liking this guy lets call him "bob" he was perfect for me and i really liked him but i never talked to him, time went by and i found myself talking to him. my love for him grew even more and i became more and more obsessed with him trying to always talk to him. then i found that he liked my best friend. i was sooo upset but it made it even worse because she liked him back. " bob" keeps asking her out but she never responds and its like she doesn't even like him, this drives me crazy and i have had enough of it! i dont know what to do! i wanna tell him how i feel but i know it would be awkward and i wanna tell my friend to stop being so annoying! pleaaase help me !!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthankyou so much this helped loads :) xx
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (13 June 2010):
 How is your friend being annoying exactly? Its not her fault that he likes her... is it? You can tell him how you feel if you want, but if he likes somebody else, whats the point? I'm sure there's plenty of guys who will pick you over your friend, so why waste time trying to be this guys 2nd choice?
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reader, YouWish  +, writes (13 June 2010):
 Ask your best friend if you can pursue Bob. If she doesn't like him, she doesn't like him. I know, you're irritated that you like Bob a lot, but he doesn't see it. Yet, he's going after your friend, who couldn't care less.
You all are young, so it's possible he's immature enough to only go for the unobtainable girls. So you could either go one of two ways. One - just tell him, "once you're done being rejected by my friend enough, let's get together!" (well, not exactly like that :)) or Two - ignore him and flirt with his friend.
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