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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I have been dating a guy for the past 4 months or so. At the beginning of the relationship we were so happy and had so much fun being around each other. We had lots of sex plus it was in fun, exhilirating places. He has been acting very strange lately and won't call me for days or when we make plans he won't show/ call/ text. We hung out about 2 weeks ago (last time I saw him) and he refused to have sex. He thinks i'm too much of a "horn dog." What's going on? Could there be another girl?
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reader, Miamine  +, writes (14 June 2010):
 Sorry babes, Auntie E is right.. too much sex and nothing else, this guy had you, used you and then got bored..
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reader, rivi +, writes (14 June 2010):
Ignore the first answer.You are just as entitled to enjoy the sex as the man is and I for one never think less of a girl just because she is obviously horny a lot of the time.It was a relationship which has now expired : you enjoyed it while it lasted but now it's over. Don't try and cling : be as [ or pretend to be as ] indifferent as him and DON'T CALL HIM.If he comes running back at some point you can decide then if you still want to let him get his pants off with you..... and if you do make him beg for it and apologize for his ungentlemanly language. If he doesn't come back well it was good fun for a few months and experience !
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reader, Auntie E +, writes (13 June 2010):
 No honey there is no other girl - I hate to be the one to tell you this - you are way too easy. He's lost interest and has basically told you this by calling you a "horn dog." He may was well have told you that you were a slut or whore. That's pretty much what he is saying. Look, at your young tender age if you are game for pretty much anything (and it sounds to me like you are)you may as well hold up a sign that says "I HAVE HAD SEX MANY DIFFERENT WAYS, WITH MANY DIFFERENT GUYS, IN MANY DIFFERENT PLACES." Trust me - he's turned off for that reason. You got used. Move on and DO NOT DO THAT AGAIN. Wait for real intimacy - do you see where just screwing got you?
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