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female
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51-59,
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writes:I need help. I’m in process of separation and divorce and about two years ago I meat this guy at work –we start sleeping together .I’m very much in love with him ,he told me that he loves me too but dosen't want a girlfriend. There is big difference in years between us ,however he told me that is not a problem for him. The weird thing is that he dosen't want to make any for example weekend plans ,like go to the movies ,or dinner etc he always wants to meet for very short time usually after work or at odd hours. At work he sad he wants to keep secret so we barely talk at work. Most of the time he doesn’t answer my calls or txt massages. Even one time one of his “ female friends” visit him at work and he was kissing her good bye when I was standing in the hallway,I was hurt so badly ,but I was able to forgive him and we keep seeing each other .since I sit one cube away from him I can sometimes since hear his conversations ,and yesterday apparently one of his ex gf call , when I confronted him he sad that was his ex that is merit with children. When I ask him yesterday for I don’t know many times ,what he wants to do and that kind of behavior of his in unacceptable he told me that he doesn’t want me in his life right now,he doesn’t want to date me .he sad he will get Serious in 1 year. What can I do ? I'm very much in love with him .should I walk away right now before will get worse. Am I being stupid ?
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (14 June 2010):
 You have to run away,not just walk away !
He told you that he does not want you in his life,he told you that he does not want to date you . What do you need to be told more than that ??!
He says he will get serious in one year ?... How nice.
Tell him then to come back in one year and if you are still free , you'll think about giving him another chance,
But right now- just turn your backi to him without a second thought.
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