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female
age
30-35,
*overnotafighter
writes: I was going out with a guy for a few months until I found out that whilst he was with me he was also someone I'm friendly with. She did'nt know that I was with him.We had a major fight over this and I didnt speak to him for nearly 2 months, but we've began speaking again and getting on really well.I met up with him last night and we didn't do anything because he knew I wouldnt want to, but I really wanted him to kiss me.It's like a lot and he has a strong hold over me and I just can't get him out of my head. I know he cheats the last time but I want him backIs it wrong that Im willing to go back to him knowimg that he was with someone else the last time?Does a leopard ever change his spots?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2010): NO THEY DON'T.
i'm talking from personal experience here. I now look like a total idiot to all his friends, my friends and everyone in our workplace for taking him back.
Don't do it.
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reader, rivi +, writes (13 June 2010):
You've obviously got the hots for him so why not enjoy what he does for you and accept you'll be time sharing him with other women ?
Tell him you're free also to see other men.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (13 June 2010):
They can, but not quickly. At his age, chances are he will do it again. It takes a lot of will to change, and somehow I don't think he will have.
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reader, Jmtmj +, writes (13 June 2010):
No he won't change, especially when you're willing to forgive him and take him back even after he two-timed you for months. I'm pretty sure you'll take him back despite what anybody says here but I really hope you're smarter than that and prove me wrong.
Best of luck :)
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