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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Heya me and my girlfriend have been together for 5months or so and she has been off with me this week, infact didnt really want to even know me. I got rushed to hosptail on the thursday night and let out on the saturday morning. I told her i was coming out she said o right thats good then got to go im busy. the sunday morning i went on her facebook to find shes being talking to her best girl mate saying OMG KIZZA IS COMING TO SEE ME IM SO HAPPY ;) , kizza is her ex from a year ago. she said she wants me and only me but kizza as a friend, i was in tears but accepted it, im lost and not sure what to think ? any ideas ??
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2010): of course ex's are always gonna be a problem, you can be really lucky and get a girl who will despise their ex (always pray for that haha) or have one who is afraid to let go of the past for a while. I have experienced the extreme of both. My advice to you is to attempt to talk to her about the problem as she may be caught up in some repressed memories. Before you do this try and impress, if she's a girl that likes soppy stuff like poems and flowers, maybe do that or make her a candlelit dinner etc, if she is a less sentimental girl, i would just do something that makes her happy first, maybe her favourite television show or film that you hate, never forget, telling her you love her will always get you SOME brownie points
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reader, Waiting for an angel  +, writes (13 June 2010):
Seems like she doesnt care for you. The fact that you were in the hospital and she didnt care doesnt speak too good of her. If shes still interested in her ex you should probably let her go, and dont contact her; let her know that its either her ex or you. If she really wants you and not him she'll come around, but meanwhile tell her you dont apprciate the fact that she's seeing her ex again unless you're ok with it. Goodluck
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2010): yeah, dump her. looks like her ex is more important and dear to her than you.
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