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writes:Okay, so I was in a relationship with a guy for roughly 3months. A week before we spilt up, I kissed his cousin. It was nothing special, just a kiss. We arranged to meet up, but then both of us backed out of it. When me and my boyfriend (his cousin) spilt up, his cousin and I were texting alot. A few days later he came to my house and we had sex. He left early the next morning to get the train back to his house. He text me the next day to say he got home okay and had his rota for work and was working flat out.. It's been 10days since the last text.. and when he stayed he asked me to give him a week and he would get with me, but I still havn't heard from him.. Me and my ex boyfriend (his cousin) are still very close, also still sleeping together, I am not sure what to do, as I really fancy the cousin and do get rather excited when he texts etc. I want to get back with my ex, but I am afraid that if his cousin decides to text me and tell me he loves me again that I might feel like I want to spilt up with his cousin again..?What should I do in this situation?Any advice is much appricated.Thanks in advance :)
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reader, rcn  +, writes (14 June 2010):
 You understand you can't have both... You need to decide, short term and long term what you want. What you really want would not change by someone sending you a text message. Make a firm decision and stick to it.
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