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writes:Ok I am 24 yrs old and i really bout this guy Ive known almost 4 yrs. I feel in love with him a little bit after i met him and see at the time he was with someone else and I was shy and kinda scared to tell him how i felt for him, and i figured he was thinking he didnt like me but we became good friends over the years and hanging out and talking all the time. But when i got pregnant with my son whos now 3 yrs old (its not his kid ok ) he started really being around, then after I had him our friendship changed we started messing around and we ended up sleeping together once and then he like disappeared without a good bye and I moved out of that state ive lived here for 2 yrs now hoping he'd find me and want to be with me.Well like a month ago he found me on my facebook and all my emotions for him like hit me and we been talking and he said he likes me likes me and i ask without being sexual what he likes about me he said he likes my mind, me being a great mom and great personality etc he name so many things that described me without it being sexual and he said that i was always on his mind everyday that i make him feel better as he does me what do i do Im deeply in care with him and want him to be mine but im afraid to tell him i really care for him ... he makes my knees weak what do i do?
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reader, Boombadaboom  +, writes (29 June 2010):
 Let him work for you, if he really deserves you he needs to earn it and not let you down afterwards. But same goes other way 'round, you have to put quite some effort in this thing between you too. The only bad thing I read is that he disappeared without a good bye or anything, so you might need to be careful about that. If he lets you down, back away. If he never lets you down, go for it. It's quite simple ;) I don't think you've got a problem as long as your gut feels right.
Besides, you don't have to 'tell' him you care for him and all of that. You've got to 'hint' it. Like make him realise it without saying it. It's basic stuff :D
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