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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hey aunts and uncles i really need advice my boyfriend and i were having problems and i was sos deeply in love with him i stopped focusing on myself and my goals to help him obtain and find his but now i feel like i need to take a break from people including my boyfriend and activities that are holding me back or not necessarily helping me ...... I want to take a break from my boyfriend but while we were still together i filled out applications for him and one was at my job and now that i dont want anything to do with him for a while my job has called him in for an interview so i dont know how to not make this situation uncomfortable for either of us and to get me back on track of focusing on me and my goals...... Any suggestions help please
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reader, visione +, writes (29 January 2010):
 It sounds like you ended up becoming dependent on him, and him on you. It's good that you see this is an issue and that you are YOU and you need to get things back on track.
What kind of job is it? If he gets it would he be around you all the time? Just take pride in your work and focus on it, build up some discipline so you won't get distracted by him. You should also talk to him and tell him about your goals, he should respect your wishes and not bother you at work.
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