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writes: hiii, ok imm 15 and my bday is in april. the guy imm talking to is 19, jus turned on december 30th. we have only been talking on the phone and txting for about 2 weeks and we met last year when i was a freshman and he was a senior. hes amazing! he has so many fun and unique qualities that i jus love. he was captain of the swim team, has a black belt in karate, doesnt ever drink/ smoke/ do drugs, and tells me all the time how much he loves talking to me. the thing is.... i havent told my mom yet because im scared she will reject him because of his age. i was considering lying to her and saying he was 18 and a senior but i knewwww that was a bad idea. i still feel like the only chance i have of getting her to accept him is to tell her he is 18, but graduated. my last boyfriend was 18 and she lovedd him. he wants me to tell her the truth and keeps telling me he will come over and he wants to talk to her himself and everything but i dont know what to do! how can i get my mom to accept him?love, Tia.
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reader, Red Green 0289  +, writes (29 January 2010):
healthy 19 year olds do not date 15 year olds... no way, no how... somethings wrong here, and your mother will see that.
19 year olds who date young girls either have some kind of social issues, are sexual predators, or have some weird idea that they can raise a young girl into the woman they've never had.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2010): When I was dating girls growing up, I could not stand being with someone younger then me, my mom never really knew I dated girls till I brought home my current girlfriend.
She's 18 and I am 16; we have so much fun together but both of our parents were kind of the types that are always in our business...
I know lame? But for some reason, my mom never asked how old she was till she started seeing her more and more at the house. Same with her parents unfortunately it is just her dad so it's a little more harder to get on his good side.
During introduction, my girlfriend showed a side I did not know till we dated more and more and my mom liked her a lot (as well my dog).
When my girlfriend left one night my mom asked me if I was going out with her or if she was my girlfriend, I suggested yes and she confidently said to me she's really nice.
Given that the first impression is solid and nice, I am sure your mother would not mind. I hope everything goes great...
Your mom should like him. :)
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