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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Dear Cupid,My boyfriend has been known for never being single for long. After a breakup, it doesn't take him long to get someone new. We have a history so I sure as hell hope I'm something special.Whenever I hear one of his ex-girlfriends' names, I feel like I'm just the next one... That girl after *jenny and before *tanya, you know?And I know some of his ex's and have seen pictures of others and they are all prettier than I am. Plus I'm a very down to Earth, family based kind of girl and he's more of the get drunk, party 24/7 kind of guy. All his past girlfriends seem to have fitted into that kind of a lifestyle but I don't. I don't know why he likes me.Everytime I invite him over or to a family thing I feel bad because I feel like he is bored out of his brains every time. I feel like I'm pulling him away from something better and more fun.Is there anything I can do to fix this? Or he can do? I want to avoid talking to him about it.Please help, it's making me mopey, depressed and snappy.xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the advice :)
I'm feeling alot better these days and I don't put up with BS from him when he makes jokes etc.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (28 January 2010):
Don't avoid it, that's where the problems will begin. You need to talk to him and tell him you feel insecure and need reassurance. You can't avoid problems in a relationship, you have to work through them. If you need reassurance, then ask for it. If he's a good guy, he'll give it to you.
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