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I worry about my sexuality

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Question - (28 January 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 29 January 2010)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, *inter1111 writes:

I am 16 nearly 17 year old male, And i have a problem. I am firstly very conscious about my appearance (overweight, i myself would like to be more muscular)

but thats not important, i believe myself to also be a late bloomer...but thats not important either...

I am attracted to women, but seem to be only able to get hard over women after not masturbating for a couple of days, wheres as when i see muscular and only muscular men, i get hard instantly. I also masturbate daily, whether this has any bearing on things.

i have never kissed or had any experiences with a girl or guy, but i know i am not and don't want to be gay , and i want to raise a family, and am a great admirer of the female form, please someone help me, reassure me. Please.

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A male reader, tinter1111 United Kingdom +, writes (29 January 2010):

tinter1111 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thankyou, this is really helping!

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A female reader, visione United States +, writes (29 January 2010):

visione agony auntYou are at an age where many question their sexuality. I wouldn't worry too much about it, or at least wait a few years when you understand your self/identity more. Arousal can also be caused by many different things for different people, it does not necessarily mean an end all be all for your sexual orientation.

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A female reader, jazzy09 United States +, writes (29 January 2010):

well maybe your not gay you just do that because you like how the guys look and you would want to be looking like them. dont worry your still young.

when you turn 21 and then still gaving this problem CONTACT A SPEZCILIST!

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A male reader, The Realist Canada +, writes (28 January 2010):

The Realist agony auntI think that you are more arroused by the muscular men right now because you want to look like that and be with women who would be all over that kind of body.

Its the same thing as girl guy porn. When you see the man involved you use that to see yourself with the girl. Your focus is on what the man is doing to her not the man himself.

Hope this helps.

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