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I love him, he compliments her, do I need to change?

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Question - (28 January 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 28 January 2010)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

I've known my best friend for 2 years, and I am really, really in love with him. The thing is that I get this feeling that he likes this other girl because he always compliments her beauty and intelligence in front of me. Everytinme he talks about her, I feel jealous and left-out, and I'm beginning to believe that he really likes her, even though we all don't go to the same school anymore. I want him to see me for who I am, and I would really like it if he would like me instead. What should I do? What do I have to change?

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A female reader, TeRah_01 United States +, writes (28 January 2010):

you dont have to change a thing about yourself. the next time he says something nice about her just tell him how you feel about it. say something like " thats for you and your guy friends to talk about" or "i really dont think you should be talking to me about your feelings about her." but let him know that your always there for him.

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