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writes:is sleeping on the same couch as your boyfriend wrong if you have been going out for a number of months and nothing will happen? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2010): As long as you keep your clothes on and no blanket over you then it should be okay I guess.
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reader, Not My Name  +, writes (28 January 2010):
 I agree. It's not wrong in theory but you are putting yourself in a position where things you may later regret, might just oooops happen.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (28 January 2010):
Not wrong, but certainly dangerous. One mistake and you might end up pregnant. Best not do it. I am a guy, so I know what this other guy will be thinking.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (28 January 2010):
It's not wrong, but it's stupid and I wouldn't let any teenager I knew do it.
It's easy to say nothing will happen NOW.
But trust me as someone who's "shared sofas" with guys. When you have that closeness and intimacy..... things start to happen.
The biggest turn on in the world is emotional intimacy and closeness. There is not one teenage boy in the world that I would trust to behave under the covers with a turned on teenage girl he loves.
It's like putting a starving diabetic in a room full of chocolate cake. They know it's a bad idea to eat any of it, in theory.....
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, Miamine +, writes (28 January 2010):
 Not wrong, but dangerous. When we are asleep, we get relaxed, and in that state, when you are warm, comfortable, wrapped up and feeling safe, emotions and strong feelings take over. Don't take the chance. If your not ready for sex, then it's best that you sleep on the couch alone and let him sleep in another room or on the floor.
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reader, Katiekins86 +, writes (28 January 2010):
 I don't think so. When I was 14 I was allowed to stay at my boyfriends when there were other friends present - we all stayed in the lounge and him and I slept on the same sofa together. Depends what parents say i guess, if we weren't allowed I don't think it would have bothered me.
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