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writes:I have a big crush on this guy in one of my classes and I'm pretty sure he likes me too. We had to do this project and we had to ask a person questions about them and write a story. One of my questions was something like what do you want to be doing in 5 years. I said living in Europe and working with music. I'm kind of worried that when we present these and he hears that I want to live on the other side of the world that he will think it's not worth it and won't try. I know this is stupid, but it's been bothering me to the point where I want to change my answer. I mean I don't know if that is exactly what I'm going to do.
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reader, visione +, writes (28 January 2010):
 Those are your aspirations, he should be impressed or interested in them, this is actually a great opportunity for him to know a bit more about you and vice versa. A lot of things could change in those 5 years (what I wanted even a year ago is different from what I want now) and like you said, it's not set. Don't worry about it!
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (28 January 2010):
Don't change your answer. Instead, go and speak to the guy and get to know him. Then he'll know what you want to do. Be brave.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2010): 5 years is a long way away. If he's interested in you he should let you know and changing your answer wont change anything. If thats where you feel you want to be in 5 years time then tell him, tell everyone, it shouldnt make a difference to what they think of you, you are who you are and you shouldnt change for other people.i hope this helps =)p.s. i got asked this question too and my answer was almost exactly the same apart from the fact that i want to be living in America =)
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2010): don't worry bout it and don't change ur answer cause you think he'll just give up cause if he's really interested in you for more then a passing fancy he won't
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