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writes:what does it mean when a girl says that she is unable to date u, as she wasnts to remain single 'at this stage in her life' and that she doestnt want to have everything in life planned out in the moment and doestnt want to think of the future and wants to live in the present and dont want to get involved in something closed and serious. Reply to this Question
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reader, ReturningtheFavor  +, writes (30 January 2010):
Been in that situation with the current woman i am dating. we have both went through these types of phases. They can pass after days, months or a year. Best thing to do, if the relationship is important to you, respect her wishes and just live for the moment. Prove to her that you can respect that, at some point she will be ready and maybe you will be the man. It all depends on how long you want to wait.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2010): It means she likes you and wants you around - why not. But she is not crazy about you. The minute she finds a man she does like she will committ to him. So be-careful your heart is on the line.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2010): It basically means she's not interested. Believe me, if she liked you enough, she would date you. I suggest you move on. Possibly remain friends (if it's not too painful for you), but find another girl to date. There are plenty of them out there and it's really just a matter of time before you meet someone and click.
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reader, old-spinstah +, writes (28 January 2010):
I think she's enjoying the single life too much to want to settle down with one boyfriend.
Or it's a polite way of telling you she doesn't want you as a boyfriend
Either way, I wouldn't expect a relationship from this lass
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2010): When in a relationship (and taking it seriously) you commit to the other person. She doesn't want to commit to anyone now.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (28 January 2010):
It basically means that she's not interested in a relationship and wants to have fun and find herself. Sorry, she's not interested.
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