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female
age
30-35,
*onfuse Girl
writes:I will just introduce myself as Princess in here ^^ 19 years old this year ^^hmm.. Actually I have problems with my boyfriend, he is 22 years old this year..We been together for almost 2 years.. We started together on 21-04-2008.. I met him in a college.. The first met, I'm not interest on him.. But, he treat me very nice.. Slowly I fall in love with him.. So I decided to be together with him.. But after I accepted him as my boyfriend, he became more strict.. I'm not really a smart girl, pretty, fashionable, and not rich too.. He always scold m even I made small mistake, once i fell down when we're going to find our seat in the cinema.. He's not even helps me but scold me.. Why do I so stupid.. I'm really sad that time.. But slowly I become stronger than before.. I know how to protect myself, earn money, I know to be dressing well.. I still need to thank him for this.. Got once, he texted a girl.. since we're together.. He never text any girl.. So i decided to check who's the girl.. My boyfriend found out this.. He didn't mad at me.. He just explain to me why he find the girl, and the girl is his old friend.. So I just apologised what I've done.. After for few months.. He said he wanted to go to Singapore for further study.. And wanted to break up with me.. I refuse.. I will wait him, even he will study for 5 years.. He used so many methods to make me give up on him.. I never give up.. Sometimes my tears almost welling up.. One day, I checked his phone again.. I saw message from a girl that wished him good night.. I dont know who's that girl.. My friend suggest, I should check who is she.. So I just ask my friend to help me to check who's the girl.. The girl same age as me.. The next day, my boyfriend found out.. This time he's relly mad.. He said I'm a dangerous gir, I make him feel shame, because of my childishness.. The most hurt me is, he said, he just pity me, that's why he together with me.. his is too much, I can't accept this.. So I break up with him.. The day before he depart, i texted him.. And he give me a present. it was a handphone.. His bother told me that my boyfriend told his family I still his girlfriend.. So weird, but I just ignore it.. We didnt contact for 1 month.. After a month he asked me for movie with his friends, he didnt continue his study because the fee too expensive.. It's really weird when you go watch movie with the one that is ever together with you for 1 year something, always spend time together before.. Even we was just touched little bit.. I feel so so so.. Miss him.. I want to hug him.. I cant believe that we're break..I miss him very much.. After movie he sant me home, without goodbye hug and goodbye kiss that we use to do before I get in to my house.. On my birthday, he ask me out again.. He ask for forgiveness.. I dont know why I forgive him very fast.. We're really happy, I love him.. I hug himas many as I want.. But now, the problems come out again.. he always didnt tell me what he's planning on.. His friends always the first to know.. I really hate I'm the last to know it.. I want to know is he really love me?I'm trying to make him miss me.. I didnt text him.. didnt pick up his phone..
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (28 January 2010):
I know you love, but I'm afraid he does not love you. He's really strict and hurts you, and he's been texting other women, which would indicate he's probably cheating. Never be with a guy who treats you like this. You can do better than him.
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