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51-59,
*avetherave
writes:Slightly confused as to make a move on this girl or not ?She's in her early 30's and slightly older than me, we've been working at the same place for about 6 months, she's spot on, ticks all the boxes but i'mgetting mixed signals, when she's in the room with others she smiles at me, laughs (sometimes too much) at jokes i say, always agrees with me, compliments how i do things etc, sometimes catch her looking at me etc. A couple of female collegues both reckon she's into me. Apparently she's been asking one of them about my ex, how long i've been single etc and she's been saying what a nice guy i am etc etc.However if she's in on her own and i go in and try to talk to her she clams up ? It's like talking to a brick wall, short answers, never instigates conversations etc. I have a bit of banter on the e-mail but even then she kinda clams up sometimes and never seems to instigate it.I get the impression never seems to go out and i've heard she has been out with a few idiots so is wary. My female mate reckons she might run a mile if i asked her out cos she's that shy, how do I get around this ? dunno if it's disinterest or shyness ? she's fine around other guys ? Aint sure what to do or how i approach this one !
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reader, davetherave +, writes (13 February 2010):
davetherave is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell i've gone and suggested she comes out sometime on e-mail and she's completely blanked me! She's fine with me other than that, confused !!!
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reader, davetherave +, writes (12 February 2010):
davetherave is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell i've gone and suggested she comes out sometime on e-mail and she's completely blanked me! She's fine with me other than that, confused !!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2010): sounds like she likes you. just keep being friendly and open with her. make her laugh. don't pressure her too much. try to be casual about it. good luck.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (28 January 2010):
She's shy all right. Just keep getting to know her and keep speaking to her. Ask her about herself. Prove your a guy worth trusting. The more she sees that you're into her, the more likely it is she will open up.
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