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*yra Anna
writes:I need a boys to ask me on this question.Here`s the thing; I`m little bit scared of doing blow job. Actually, I`m not absolutely sure that I want to do it, but also, I don`t have aversion or anything like that. Would my boyfriend blame me, or would he be disappointed if I don`t do such a thing like b.j.?
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (29 January 2010):
 My advice would be to do that only for someone you truly love, or if it is something that really turns you on. Some women find it to be extremely erotic and even a great enjoyment, just as some men also love providing oral to a woman, but in any case is better with great desire to do so.
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reader, old-spinstah  +, writes (28 January 2010):
You don't have to give him a blow job. You shouldn't have to do anything that makes you feel uncomfortable. If he loves you and is a nice caring understanding kind of guy with your best interests at heart - he will not blame you or hold it against you. I think he WILL be disappointed though.
My advice is wait until you're ready but learn how to give a proper blow job. It take some practice but men will be putty in your hands..... (or mouth as the case may be)
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2010): Should i lie to you? Ofcourse he will understand, hes loves you and will be happy just being with you. nice fairytale
reality time: he will see you as selfish plain and simple. He will then start nitpicking all of your flaws and just like that its over. Good sex is very important to men.
Especially after hes being going down on you. Sex is about giving pleasure not just taking it.
So what exactly are you scared of? Is it the taste or sizeof his penus?
Dont worry bout size, he wont ram it down your throat (if he tries slap him, ill come and slap him too lol). Usually only his head will be in your mouth and you can always move your head back. If you get comfortable with it you (i emphasize you) can put in in deeper but only what your comfortable with.
Secondly taste, yes im sorry but it wont taste very nice, especially when he comes. Buttttttttt thats only the first time, its an acquired taste and the more you do it the better it tastes. Vaginas dont exactly taste nice either, the first time I went down on my gf i almost threw up. Quite a few times later, now i love it, watching her squirm around and the taste is quite nice. (bit of a control thing lol)
Thirdly how to do it, is this the issue? Its actually quite easy, if youd like to know ill be happy to tell.
So relax ok and just enjoy yourself, you are special and you do deserve to have a good time in bed. Dont be scared. Trust me you wont regret it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2010): bottom line...you have no obligation to give him oral. if youre not totally against it i would say try it out. are you guys having sexual intercourse? if you would like to abstain from intercourse i suggest rubbing lotion on his penis for a hand job. you wont have to worry about teeth or whether or not to swallow his seeman. lotion handjobs are a very enjoyable thing for a guy.
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