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writes:I have been dating my g/f for more than 6 months now and she has been hinting about marriage. We have been having sex since our second month of dating and up until a few weeks ago I was using condoms.My girlfriend went on the pill so I would not have to wrestle with condoms and spoil the mood. Even though she went on the pill I wasn't convinced that they were working right away, so I would pull out at the last minute and finish on her stomach. She got mad when I did that a few times and ever since as I am about to orgasm she grabs my behind with both hands and pulls me in deep inside her when it happens, so I finish inside her. She said she likes the way it feels.Last week I went to take a shower after we had sex and started the shower running to warm it up. But then I remembered my electric shaver was plugged into an outlet in the bedroom so I returned only to find her laying on the bed with her feet up in the air propped against the bedroom wall. I stopped before she saw me and turned around and went back to the shower.Today we had sex again, only this time as I was about to finish I held her hands playfully and lifted myself off to finish on her stomach again. She got really cranky when I did that and I handed her a towel and went for a shower. I started the water and returned to the bedroom door to find that she was scooping up my drippings and putting them inside her. When she got all of it she propped herself up against the bedroom wall again with her feet in the air. I started to piece together what was happening here. She left for work before me and I searched her medicine cabinet and night stand for birth control pills and could not find any. In fact I have never seen her take any pills on a regular basis. I think my girlfriend is trying to get pregnant so I marry her. Can she get pregnant by scooping up my stuff and putting it inside her? Does this seem possible or am I way off base here? Any suggestions on what I should do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2010): Get a different GF because this one can not be trusted. If you keep this GF you will be a father soon even if you don't want to be. If that happens refuse to marry her because a woman this deceptive will make a terrible wife.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2010): She is one dangerous woman. If she feels she has to trap you into a marriage/baby through deceit then you really need to get away from here asap. It's not fair on you and it's really nasty behaviour. Seriously, you have to stop sleeping with her if you don't want her to get pregnant. But I think you should leave her. She has lied to you about brith control which is an awful thing to do. She can't be trusted. Please leave her before this gets any worse. Let us know what happens!
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reader, Miamine  +, writes (28 January 2010):
 A woman this manipulative is dangerous. Buy condoms and use them, and make sure she never touches them or you will find out that they mysteriously develop some holes.
A woman who is willing to lie, and trap you into something you are not ready for, is not a woman you should continue a relationship with. If I was you, I'd dump her and run away as fast as my feet would carry me... Her behaviour is strange, I don't think she's completely sane myself.
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reader, Gridrebel +, writes (28 January 2010):
 Yes she is trying to get pregnant. Can it work?? YES IT CAN. Do you want to be responsible for the next 18 to 21 years for a child that was conceived by deceptive methods and under false pretenses. This is such a deep level of deception and ultimate betrayal besides being horribly selfish, immature and irresponsible. I would be running for the exit. There are some serious much deeper problems here. Don't even try to understand or work through this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2010): Wow - ok well yes women can absolutly trap you. So use condoms but even that is not safe all the time. You need to talk with her be honest. Tell her how you feel and ask yourself do you want to marry her and if not WHY -? If you do not have trust what do you really have? And if she gets pregnant you are responsible too.
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (28 January 2010):
 Use a condom.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (28 January 2010):
Yes,she is trying to get pregnant if she's putting your sperm inside her and putting her legs against the wall. If I were you, I would actually end it with her now. She's lying about the pill and she's trying to get pregnant without talking to you, so she's obviously unstable. Yes, she can get pregnant by scooping your stuff and putting it inside her. Seriously end it.
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