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female
age
36-40,
*haia
writes:i am in desperate need of help, my partner and i met eachother online 4 years ago, and moved in with eachother 6 months after first meeting, hes 26, im 24.before we moved in we would chat on the phone for hours every day, in total about 7 hours a day and endless texts, it was amazing and, when we moved in, things were great.. he made me feel like the most amazing thing in his life, he was so proud of me, and when he smiled at me, he had a glint in his eye, it made me feel all warm inside, he told me i was the one, and used to send me endless messeges, now.. all he does is speak to girls online, i know he wouldnt cheat on me, trust is not the issue i dont think, i just wonder if the girls hes speaking to is sharing with him what i did when we first met online, he doesnt look at me like he used to, i find myself crying each and everyday, im so needy over him i constatly need him to reasure me, i just want him to hold me and tell me he loves me so much, ive become so obsessed i tell him i lov him about 20 times a day, its not good. the thing is people tell me to do things that make me happy then maybe he will start paying more attention to me, but i dont know why but the thought of doing anything without him makes my heart break, i want to feel him close to me, i want him to cherish me like he did before, he tells me he loves me so much and wants to make it work, but that hes fed up with my insecurities, he wants space to do things he wants and tells me i shouldnt need him all the time...i agree with him but i dont know what to do... how can i stop being so needy please someone help me, im so depressed and want to save this relationship
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (28 January 2010):
You need to get some friends!!
If you were chatting to him for 7 hours at a time, you clearly weren't working / talking to anyone else.
Get a job or do some volunteer work, and go on a girls night out.
You need something else in your life. This isn't healthy!
Good Luck!! xx
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