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I really want to return the favour for my boyfriend, but I'm pretty scared to do it!

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Question - (28 January 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 29 January 2010)
A female age 30-35, *riana2 writes:

Hi I need a little help, see me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 1/2 years (since highschool were 20) and we both are still deep in love. We lost our virginities to each other when we were 18 and the sex is great! My boyfriend doesn't have a problem at all going down on me even though I still feel a little uncomfortable with him doing so but I NEVER went down on him though. Truth is I'm pretty scared to put my mouth on it lol I've watched porn and I have an idea on how to do it lol but I just can't. He's never asked me to do it though but he does it to me and I want to return the favor but I'm just scared! Also... He isn't circumcised but that doesn't really bother me that much lol pls give ur opinions I appreciate it!

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (29 January 2010):

DoubleM agony auntDo it if you want to, and for no other reason.

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A female reader, old-spinstah United Kingdom +, writes (28 January 2010):

Any idea what you find so distasteful about it?

Are you worried that it will smell or taste bad?

Or are you worried that you'll choke or gag?

Or just that you'll do it wrong?

FatherlyAdvice gives you some good advice, especially about the porn movies - sure, you can get a couple of ideas from them but it's never like that in real life.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2010):

if you cant you cant. tell him you're sorry and he should understand if he loves you. and especially if you two are still having sex, he shouldn't complain. fatherly advice is right when he sayd "communicate communicate communicate"

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A male reader, Fatherly Advice United States +, writes (28 January 2010):

Fatherly Advice agony auntBased on what you have written, I'll offer up some unqualified advice. First don't rely on porn to learn what your man likes. Encourage him to talk and advise you as you go. Second start off with a shower. Third get comfortable, don't try to do this with him standing and you kneeling. This is probably not going to be a quickie. Start out by exploring and getting to know his body better. Use fingers, lips and tongue. Don't be afraid to take a break. It's no fun with a sore jaw. Don't expect success the first time. He will appreciate the effort. Communicate, communicate, communicate.

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