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Why isn't his penis erect enough?

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Question - (22 December 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 22 December 2010)
A female Switzerland age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I wanted to have sex with my boyfriend for the first time, but I couldn't make his penis hard enough for penetration. Then he tried to erect it himself, but even thought his penis was erected he couldn't insert it into my vagina in spite of doing a lot of foreplay. What could be wrong?

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A male reader, Who United States +, writes (22 December 2010):

Who agony auntThe key phase in your question is “…for the first time…” For lots of people (most?) the first time involves a lot of clumsily fumbling, and the specific issue you two had. But don’t worry a little practice, especially if you neither of you has things planned out but you are just going with the flow and letting things develop naturally, will usually fix this problem. Relax, be a little patient, be safe, and it will work out by itself. If it does not your boyfriend goes and talks to his doctor,(but don't tell him this until you have tried several times without improvement.)

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A male reader, Welsh Uncle Dave United Kingdom +, writes (22 December 2010):

could be something as simple as nerves

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