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Nice to my face but says mean things behind my back!

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Question - (22 December 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 25 December 2010)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

ok so there's this guy that i've been friends with for about a year. This year we have certaintly have had our ups and downs. we just started being friends again about 2-3 months ago. The thing thats really upseting me is that he'll be nice to me and then he'll say really, really mean things behnd my back. Some people have been coming up to me telling me these things. I don't get it beause he says that i'm special to him, that he loves me as a friend, and that he missed me when we weren't friends..I just don't get it. And when I ask him about it he has he didn't say anything mean. And i'm so hurt my friends are saying just don't talk to him, forget about him because they know how much he's hurting me. They always say "idk how you see the good in him." SO what do I do when a guy is nice to me in person but then is reall mean to me behind my back? what should I do?

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A male reader, Artfuldodger08 United Kingdom +, writes (25 December 2010):

You have no need for two faced people in your life. Get rid of him as soon as you can, this being said however make sure that he actually has been talking behind your back and this isn't just a bunch of rumours circulating.

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A female reader, babycakes345 United Kingdom +, writes (23 December 2010):

im 14 and my boyfriend was similar to this juss say to him if he doesnt tell you the truth that u wont be his mate and if he loves you as a friend he will just tell you if he said somthing and you mite find it in your heart to forgive him

adriana xx

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