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writes:ohhhhh kayyyyy. So my ex boyfriend said i cant talk to his ex girlfriend and all i told her was the truth. He cheated on me. We live in same town. This girlfriend hes now seeing again live in a different state and shes fifteen. Hes twenty. Was this right for me to worry about her?
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reader, dirtball +, writes (22 December 2010):
 "It was horrible how i couldnt open me eyes to wat everyone was saying..."
Yup, just like you won't be able to open her eyes either. that's why it's best if you stay out of it. If you don't you just look like a spite filled ex with issues and are easily dismissed by her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhe did not cheat on me with her. It was some other girl who he then introduced me to a day later. I am staying as far as i can from him but we work together so its alittle hard. And i cant get ahold of her parents cuz i dont know if theyre having sex or not. Shes in a different state but he did go back and visit her a couple weeks ago and stayed at their house. I wish i could just write him outta my life but he over took all my friends i hung out with wen we were dating. I know it sounds stupid. I know its really none of my business but i remember when i was fifteen and i thought i was in love with some guy. It was horrible how i couldnt open me eyes to wat everyone was saying...
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reader, dirtball +, writes (22 December 2010):
Stay out of his life. It's ok to be concerned for her, but really it's not your place. If he does have sex with her then that's statutory rape, no doubt about that.
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (22 December 2010):
 How do you know he is having sex with her?
From your question I gather your ex boyfriend has gone back to the girl he was cheating on with you.
Is that right?
And what are you worrying about, the fact he cheated or the fact he said you couldn't talk to her. I dont understand what you are asking.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (22 December 2010):
 OMG. You're worried about HER??? The only thing you should be worried about her about is that she's being statutory raped by a 20 year old!
Your ex is committing a felony! 18 is the age of consent. Have you not seen Dateline? This child is not your competition. She is being victimized by your ex!
You need to get away from him and fast! Also, you might want to tell her parents what is going on and let them deal with the local authorities on how to protect their daughter! What your ex is doing is a CRIME!
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