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writes:I met my cousin for the first time a year and a half ago during the summer. She moved down to my state to attend college in the city. Long story short i realized that she has been trying to make attempts to seduce me. Trying to undress in the same room, getting me drunk, asking me if id talk to a cousin... so on an so forth.. Basically he seduction techniques.... worked.. I want to sleep with her.. I dont care if its not right but how should i approach it.. bring it up or just let it happen??
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reader, Isegrimm  +, writes (2 January 2011):
First you should find out if she´s serious about the flirting/seduction.
Let´s get this clear
Somewhere in the world it´s a crime and somewhere it´s not.
Find out about it. Your state must have a specific law about to which degree this kind of relationship is legal.
Here in Germany it´s the second degree if i recall correctly
That means my Mothers, Cousins, Daughter (whew) i can have a relatinship with.
My Aunts Daughter = No-Go
but even that may be allowed in some states or Country´s around the world.
If it´s illegal in your state you can probably move 30 miles into the next and have sex there legally XD
American laws are hilarious^^
Find out, have fun.
P.S.: I don´t think it might be something serious but if it is there is also the option of going abroad where it´s legal (France or Belgium for example) but that you should think over before^^ + you can´t have children there either if it´s a first degree relative (ACTUAL cousin)
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reader, steph007  +, writes (23 December 2010):
Okay, again. If you see that she is just seducing you, then ask her, if she thoughts it seriously, or that is only a game. And if she answers yes, then tell her that how you feel, and kiss her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionshe got drunk an asked me why i wouldnt give in one day..
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionshe got drunk an asked me why i wouldnt give in one day..
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reader, steph007 +, writes (22 December 2010):
In this "Forbidden love" section every 2nd or 3rd letter is about love or even affair with a cousin. So I think, this is a normal phenomenon. But you should be careful if you do something. Baby is certainly not good if you are cousins, and that is better if the environment does not notice anything. Finally, that is also not good if the affair lasts too long.
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reader, Sex_counsellor  +, writes (22 December 2010):
 This is a very risky game, my immediate advice would be to stay clear from any sexual activity with family members. If it is going to happen I suggest you do not bring it up, be sure that she definitely wants it first as you may have got the wrong end of the stick.
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reader, the_phoenic +, writes (22 December 2010):
if you are interrested
it well show in your eyes
and i think when she undertands this eagerness within you
she well do all the necassary steps
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