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writes:this man i have meet i just not sure if he intrested in me or being friendly . one time he came over an keep looking in my eyes he shake my hand sometimes . but recent he has started hugging me i do not know if this was just a mistake but we hug cheek to cheek he has wink at me but i have seen him wink at my two married girlfriend they think he is just a nice man .one of my grienfriend think he likes me but the other she has known him for awhile thinks he is just friendly man . we say good morning an have never really talk to each other . i know i am a shy person but when i get to know a person i can talk to them . but he seem to be a confident man . i found out his wife died about 10 years ago . could a man wink an place his hands on yout shoulder an hug you can theses just be a friendly jester an nothing more to him . we have seen each other for about 3 month or more . so i have been think if he was intrested in me he would have at least ask for my number . please help i would appericate you advice on this .thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwe hardly have time to talk church start an we go an sit down . i do say good morning when i see him an he will say it back but he always comes over an greet me he has now just got start hugging me .he use to just shake hands with me . when he started comeing over to where i sat he would just stand there an look me in the eye an then say howgood it was t see me there . he started with winking handshaken now hugging last sunday i could have sworn he pull my head to his an we hugged cheek to cheek which i do not think this has happen before .my girlfriend told me one sunday he watch me alot .so i am still trying to figured him out an if he is not i am going to moved on
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2010): Hi, I feel I have to add my bit to this, as I was in the same situation for months myself.
I agonised over this guy, does he like me or not, he did exactly the same things to me, but for me there was a lot of chemistry, and I just felt a goood connection.
I do know that some men are just very afraid of rejection.
I looked at sites for months asking for help and came to your conclusion. Not asking for my number, so not interested.
I was wrong, because of these sites, I backed off from him even though i still felt this connection, I decided to let him know I liked him, subtly, but not too in the face. It worked.
Just try to be subtle about it, hint at what you like to do, things you like, dislike, etc. If he is interested in you he will start coincidentally liking the same things. He will want to be around you, and you will notice it, believe me!
It may take some time, some guys are cautious, like to get to know someone a lot, and be absolutely sure they will not be rejected before they make a move.
Have you noticed him watching you?, in a cocnversation does he look to you after saying something?
Your gut instinct is not usually wrong, I would go with it if I were you!!
Lots of luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwe meet at church an thats where we greet one another . thank you i am going to get the book that you said would help me . i think i know the answer to my question .but would like another person advice about this to make sure that i am right .
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reader, Betty4492 +, writes (22 December 2010):
 Hello there! I can't tell you how many times I've been in your situation. All the wondering, worrying, waiting. So here's what you do: Run, don't walk, to Amazon.com or your nearest bookstore and get "He's Just Not That Into You." I'm NOT saying this man is NOT into you, I'm saying that the book helps women move on from these guys who keep us up at night. I've learned from the book that if a guy likes you he will indeed ask for your number, ask you out and not give you much time to worry and think. It's as simple as that. With this particular man, I would just be friendly and continue on with your life. Don't invite him over, don't do anything. It's not clear from what you posted when and how you see him, but do your daily stuff, have fun and if you run into him...smile and say hi. Then move on. If he likes you he'll call! P.S. Don't let him touch you anymore.
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