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Do we really have the same taste or is he doing it to impress me?

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Question - (22 December 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 22 December 2010)
A female Canada age 30-35, anonymous writes:

when ever i say something i like he says i like it too for example i said i like to watch funny videos

he said me too

i said i like to play video games

he said i love games

i said my favorite food is rice

he said i love rice

ok so there is this guy in my neighborhood and we talk sometime when ever i talk to him about my favorite things he says that he likes it too i don't know what does it means do we really have same choice or he is doing it on purpose.

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A female reader, Gabrielle Stoker United States +, writes (22 December 2010):

Gabrielle Stoker agony auntIt's...really not possible to tell on the basis of this. Maybe he really does like the things you do (after all, a lot of people do like rice, videogames and humorous videos). Or maybe he's trying to impress you. Either way, you need to figure out whether you two gel as friends and try to have a more two-sided conversation.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2010):

He may really like the same things as you. Or he may want you to like him, and so he thinks it would help if it seems you have a lot in common. I don't think he is doing it to annoy you though.

I think the best way to find out what he likes and who he really is is to ask him questions about what he likes. Instead of saying, "I like ___", to which he will say "me too", ask him "What do you like?" So you could ask him, "What kinds of books do you like?" "What tv programmes do you watch?" "Do you like sports? Which ones?" Ask him about himself, and see what he has to say. You will get a more accurate picture of whether you have things in common or not, because he will be forced to tell you about himself instead of simply being able to say "Me too."

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A male reader, amicalus Algeria +, writes (22 December 2010):

amicalus agony auntno I do not think you have the same tastes, in my opinion he is afraid of losing you, weakness of love, we must talk to him seriously otherwise you will not get far

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