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*obodycaresformyname
writes:My best friend of two years told me she was in love with me, and I told her I was in love with her too. Things started off fine, we were never dating, but we wanted to. (At the time she had a boyfriend that she had already loved too) Now she tells me she likes another guy too, but doesn't love him. And she can't decide who she wants to date out of the two of us now that she's single. I don't know what to do, think, say, or anything. She says she knows i'm the one, and I know she's the one too...What the hell do I do?
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reader, nobodycaresformyname +, writes (4 January 2011):
nobodycaresformyname is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThere is now more to my question...Now she also had sex with the other guy and is probably pregnant, seems like everything I do or say makes her mad. She says i'm hurting her because I care too much. She doesn't see how she's hurting me either. Am I the bad guy here? Ever since this other guy got in the picture, things took a turn for the worst. She doesn't want to hurt him, and she doesn't want to hurt me...but she already has, and doesn't see it. She tells me she just likes him, but she loves me...I don't see how its so hard to understand that if she doesn't love him like she does me, why is it so hard to choose?
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reader, steph007  +, writes (23 December 2010):
In this case I would answer her that I am not jealous, she should not be torn, she can date with the other guy if she wants, but I want her to be also with me.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (22 December 2010):
 Tell her to quit being silly and start dating you like she knows she wants to!
She's just scared. Reassure her you'll be there for her and that you're scared too, but it would be foolish to miss out on such an opportunity. Good luck.
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reader, MorgieMoo  +, writes (22 December 2010):
She says you are 'the one'. So shouldn't this mean that she only has true feelings for you? I think that you need to sit her down and ask her how she truly feels and what she truly wants to happen between the two of you..
You are the only one being strung along in this and you will be the only one that gets hurt if she decides that she likes the other person. You need to talk to her. Good luck x
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