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writes:I'm 27 and my girlfriend is 30 we've been dating for 2 months,and before we hooked up I told her I had been laid off from my job.She said she understood and didn't care because we had history together so she knew I would get myself together, I do little things like cook for her do a lot of other things because I'm not working right now. All of a sudden she tells me I'm not being a productive boyfriend, what should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2010): Well if you are unemployed at the moment I assume you have no money? It is nice for a guy to take his girl out to eat and for drinks every once in a while. Or atleast have money to enjoy doing things together that for the most part do require having money. Forget cooking for her, that's nice and all, but what are you doing to get a job? Women like men who can provide not only for them but for themselves too. It is important that you can have money here and there to at least show her a good time. To at least show that you are doing something.You should focus on getting a job. If the job you are trying to get is out of reach at the moment then any job will suffice at the moment. 2 months is a long time to not be working. Better to have any job than no job. Just find a job. Any job. I am sure if you do she will find you to be more productive.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2010): You should find out exactly what she means by "productive"
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