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I'm not feeling pleasure from sexual acts and wondering why?

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Question - (22 December 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 23 December 2010)
A female Portugal age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Hi!

I am 15 years old and i cant understand a thing. So i use to estimulate my clitoris and i love it but i cant put anything on my vagina because when i put i feel a little bit of pain but nothing to worry about and i dont feel anything, like i dont feel pleasure and any of those things. I just feel pain and one weird feeling that i am going to shit myself, do you guys understand, its really weird. Please help me.

Why do i feel this? Why am i not feeling pleasure? Is this the real sex? When i lose my virginity its gonna be like that?

OMG help me, because if its like this tell me. I dont want to feel that way. I want to feel pleasure, hotness and the rest.

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A female reader, katie16 United States +, writes (23 December 2010):

Your young so your hormones are rageing, there bouncing around and maturing. You might be stimulationg to much, take a break for a few days or weeks, it will probably be hard, but your sences should come back. Good luck.

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A female reader, VikkiDec1 United States +, writes (23 December 2010):

VikkiDec1 agony auntIt sounds like your just nervous and too focused on getting everything right and feeling things u think u should feel. I think anyone can feel pleasure when they relax and just enjoy foreplay, sex, etc. When the time is right, and i know it may sound corny, but you will feel great. That happened to me, my first boyfriend when I was 17, tried to make me climax but it never happened. This was because I felt so much pressure for it to happen and forgot to live in the moment.

When I was with my current boyfriend for a time, he paid attention to what i needed, i relaxed, and it was so amazing.

Just take a deep breath and wait for the right guy to pay attention to your needs and everything u want will happen.

If pain continues after repeated foreplay or sex, your gyno should check everything out just to make sure.

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