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writes: Hi! I am 15 years old and i cant understand a thing. So i use to estimulate my clitoris and i love it but i cant put anything on my vagina because when i put i feel a little bit of pain but nothing to worry about and i dont feel anything, like i dont feel pleasure and any of those things. I just feel pain and one weird feeling that i am going to shit myself, do you guys understand, its really weird. Please help me.Why do i feel this? Why am i not feeling pleasure? Is this the real sex? When i lose my virginity its gonna be like that?OMG help me, because if its like this tell me. I dont want to feel that way. I want to feel pleasure, hotness and the rest.
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reader, katie16 +, writes (23 December 2010):
Your young so your hormones are rageing, there bouncing around and maturing. You might be stimulationg to much, take a break for a few days or weeks, it will probably be hard, but your sences should come back. Good luck.
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reader, VikkiDec1 +, writes (23 December 2010):
It sounds like your just nervous and too focused on getting everything right and feeling things u think u should feel. I think anyone can feel pleasure when they relax and just enjoy foreplay, sex, etc. When the time is right, and i know it may sound corny, but you will feel great. That happened to me, my first boyfriend when I was 17, tried to make me climax but it never happened. This was because I felt so much pressure for it to happen and forgot to live in the moment.
When I was with my current boyfriend for a time, he paid attention to what i needed, i relaxed, and it was so amazing.
Just take a deep breath and wait for the right guy to pay attention to your needs and everything u want will happen.
If pain continues after repeated foreplay or sex, your gyno should check everything out just to make sure.
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