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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:hi, so i was in love with this guy, like really in love. But i was shy and nervous around him. He's quite a bit older than me (4 years to be exact). I'm 15, 16 in half a year. A couple months ago when i was just turning 15 i asked him if he 'liked' me in the sense of more than a friend. And he replied "I think you're a great girl, but i'm kinda seing someone. If i wasn't then..." The fact is, he isn't seeing someone. And actually i've heard things that suggest he does like me. But he's friends with one of my brothers. The comments i've heard from his friends about it all (they all know i like him).okay the comments i've heard are: "IF i were to date her, i would wait till she was 16 before i touched her."- thats what he says heard from my another brother. "If i'd found out then i'd wack him round the head with a heavy object, saying say no say no to her."- heard from his friend to my brother (just to let you know they're not violent it was all jokey) but the thing is this suggests that he was thining of saying somethngelse other than no and debatng wheher to say yes. "*name of another friend* got in a fight with *name of him* about it"- this suggests that he was debating saying yes. so what does this mean. its been months and he hasn't had a girlfriend (an unlikley thing for him) and he still looks at me the same way and i still love him. I just want to know whether i should wait for him, but if i wait it may end up hurting me more. Should i try and move on? (there have been other guys asking me out on dates) Or should i wait for him? sometimes i think this is a test to see if i'm oing to be loyal to him, with my feelings. but whatever happens i cant keep staying like this. thanks in advance any advice would be extremely greatful. sorry i know this is long.
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