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writes:I dont understand how my gf is never horny. We have alot of foreplay and she gets dripping wet all over but yet she says she doesn't feel horny.Also it seems that she never initiates sex or anything sexual, i always have to start doing everything till the mood dies out when she says she's not horny.We have been together for almost 1 year and we have never had sex completely. But when i do try to put it in she always says it hurts and i pull out (very few times we do get that far)She doesnt want to give or receive oral, when i start to do itHow can i make her feel horny to want me, because i feel as if i'm always horny for her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2010): ~WELL~Have you tried asking her what her thoughts are on intimacy? What turns her on and off? Does she have any fantasies that she would like to fulfill with you?That she gets super wet with foreplay is an indication that she's capable os sexual arousal.However, the issue with penal penetration discomfort sounds like it just might be vaginismus and/or thick hymen as I have both and while I get gushing wet and horny as hell with thoughts of being penetrated with a penis, the actual reality of it unfolding makes me run fast and hard because of a phobia that I have for it because of the inevitable pain. So I guess you can do research on the condition and also have your girlfriend speak with her gynecologist to see if perhaps that's what she has.Now as far as her not wanting to receive or give oral, I can't even begin to advise you on that...It just makes me question, does she have a clit? I've heard that some clit are so tiny they can't be found??????I hope things work out well for your girlfriend and you.God Bless.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2010): she is selfish. she wants you do do all the work and more. hehe.
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (22 December 2010):
 I'm not a doctor, but maybe you should look up "Vaginismus" on wikipedia.
It could be an explanation.
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