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writes:I have been knowing this boy for almost 3 years now and he and I have finally made things official. I like him alot and he told me that he's had feelings for me for a while now. I've gotten to the point now that I dont care what he says to me because I'm so sexually attracted to him, so we attempted to have sex. (This was the night before we became official)Since then, I've asked him how he feels about me but he just ignored me. Is it possible that he only likes me for what he thought he was going to get from me or was he really into me? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2010): rcn is right, nothing you say indicates that what you're thinking makes any sense at all.
You need to talk to him, there could be lots of explanations, if you tried to have sex then maybe he feels embarrassed that it didn't happen or he failed. There are too many possibilities, you know him long enough now to be able to talk to him so just go ahead and do that. Try not to jump to conclusions.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2010): If he's ignoring you and you attempted sex...was the act completed? Even if it wasnt Id say his lack of communication is a red flag because it signifies immaturity and quite possibly yeah, he's a "tail hunter". Id sit and have a face to face with the guy, find out if he's genuine, and see what is going on and determine whether to move forward. Good luck.
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reader, rcn +, writes (22 December 2010):
 So, you tried having sex? Did it not work out as you had planned? If he's ignoring you, there is something wrong. If you two were official, there must be reason why you are together other than having sex. It sounds like you need to ask him what is going on. You didn't give enough information to answer any further than that you need to confront him to find out what's up.
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