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writes:about 10 days ago i went over to my female friends house to wish her a happy birthday and to give her some gifts. its only been about a year since we first met so this was my first chance to share it with her.i wrote something super friendly in her card, but not sexual including 'the best things in life arent things theyre people like you'. shes been flirting with me for months and we seemed to be getting closer and hanging out more often. that night we were drinking and i let it out that i was a 43 year old virgin and that i need to get laid. she got angry and we both stood up and the next thing i knew i fell back and broke one of her plants. she told me to go. i told i was sorry but havent talked to her since.should i call her and wish her a merry christmas and tell her i really screwed up and ask her to forgive me or let time heal it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 December 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanx again jonas, your very sweet, but shes gone and i dont think there is any hope especially since our only mutual friend is my sister and she...now doesnt care for her at all bcos she hurt her brother. ive told my sister to be friendly to her if she runs into her, yet i want her to express how much that i am sorry...bcos i cant talk to her at all. as its said- stick a fork in me im done. im tired and i have to move on and thats the end of it unless GOD has other plans to blow my mind.still hurting,yet feel much better bcos of your help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 December 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanx jonas for what i believe is the best advice for my situation. ive been going back and forth with what it is that i should do and the closer it gets to christmas, the more i feel it might be a mistake to call and talk to her. part of me feels that christmas is a good reason or excuse and maybe my only chance to have one last opportunity to do so and i dont want it to pass by, but it could very possibly make things worse and all i really want is my friend back. being a virgin i have alot of patience and if.....no when....she comes back into my life my priority will be our friendship not sex and if sex comes it will be frosting on the cake ive been baking all my life. i know i have to learn from this, but having only a few friends in my entire life and now none, im just tired of being so lonely.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2010): i think you should call her and talk about it. goodluck
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2010): you should call her and let her know that it was not your intention to offend her and offer to replace what was broken, let her know you are embarrassed and sorry. as long as you mean it all it should be OK. But if she needs time give her time.
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