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*oconfused234
writes:Ok,supposedly this guy is supposed to be my boyfriend but he is known around school as the biggest flirt. I am the type of girl who gets serious when I'm in a relashonship. I really like this guy be cause he acts different around me but all the girls are trying to warn me about him(mostly because they want to get with him). I can tell he really likes me and I don't want to hurt him saying that I'm unsure of our relashonship. He flirts with any girl he can get his hands on and I'm so irritated with it. He also never calls me back when I call him and he broke up with his other girlfriend for me so there's also more drama. I don't know if I can take this. What do I do??
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2010): Having taken one look at your picture, I'd say: just turn up in front of him the next time you meet, and it should take about ten seconds for him to realise that if he ever wants any other woman on Earth, he is completely insane.
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reader, Soconfused234 +, writes (27 December 2010):
Soconfused234 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank you all for your answers!!!! They help a great deal!
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reader, Tbosse  +, writes (23 December 2010):
 Tell him that his flirting 'nature' is bad for your relationship.if hes realy into you, he'll understand and wil stop it
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reader, sokrgirl +, writes (23 December 2010):
My boyfriend is the same way, and I'm a very jealous person so at first it was hard. However, I've learned it's all about trust. You have to trust him completely that it's only harmless flirting and that's just his personality. You also have to be open with him and let him know it bothers you. I have my days when enough is enough and I call him up and we talk through it because it is hard. But it's all about trust, if you trust him then it'll be okay and if he really cares when you do tell him it bothers you he'll listen and you can work through it together.
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reader, rivi +, writes (23 December 2010):
Either accept that he is ( or wishes to ) 'play the field' and you are NOT his exclusive and sole GF ( and get what pleasure / kudos you get from the relationship you do have )
OR kiss him a sweet goodbye and go looking for someone who just wants one girl and not others ( but you might wait a while if you are looking for a teen or 20 something male with that characteristic ).
You decide !
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