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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I'm not sure why my male friend acted this way. I was out with him tonight and one of my family members. He used to fancy me, even though he is married, and I'm not sure if he still does, as i hadn't seen him since September. He got back in touch with me last weekend. At first, he asked me out for a drink, and my relative wasn't asked, but then this guy ended up asking him to come along. He winked at me a couple of times, when he was making fun of my relative. He wasnt making fun in a bad way, he was just joking around. He kept saying that he didn't like dancing too but i danced with him to one song and he held me close to him some of the time.I was dancing some of the time with some other guys. I was just having fun with them. My relative came over to me all of a sudden, and said that my male friend had gone home, but he wasnt sure why. I tried to call my male friend and sent him a text message asking what was wrong. At first, the phone rang, but went through to voicemail, and then it went through to voicemail straight away, so he must have turned his phone off. I know that he and my relative have argued in the past about him liking me, but i'm not sure if my relative said anything to him tonight, or not. I really want to know what's wrong. Should i just wait and see if he contacts me ?.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2011): i heard from him, and he was just annoyed with my relative so he left .
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 December 2010): Probably he had to go answer to his wife. Either that or he just lost interest in you and has found another target.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2010): The obvious reason that a married person hasn't answered your calls and texts after leaving unexpectedly to go home is that he had much rather be with his wife. My advice.Find a single man and leave the ones that are already taken alone. They may want to use you from time to time, but they don't love you, they aren't committed to you, and you will always be pushed aside without thought or comment when their wife beckons them home. Wise up, get a single partner, and work on building a relationship out of trust, honesty, and whatever elese you may have in common.
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