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Why is my boyfriend acting so funny about me adding a friend on my PS3 when he adds new friends all the time on his?

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Question - (22 December 2010) 5 Answers - (Newest, 23 December 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *lutterfly writes:

ok so my boyfriend n i have been together 3 yrs n generally we are a very happpy couple. he has a ps3 n created an account for me to play my games on.

anyway yesterday he couldnt sign into his ps3 account so wanted to see if mine was working, which it was. he saw that i had added 1 person as a friend on there and has got really funny about it. i know i told him about this person who i have never spoke to n only played maybe 2 games of call of duty with him.

like i said bf is now whining n bitching saying i lied about it n im using ps3 to meet ppl. i think he is seriously overreacting. or should i be understanding as to why he is annoyed. i've never moaned when he adds ppl on his account.

any advice would be great thanks

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A male reader, dirtball United States +, writes (23 December 2010):

dirtball agony auntGlad to hear it!

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A female reader, Flutterfly United Kingdom +, writes (23 December 2010):

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Flutterfly agony aunthe's apoligized for overreacting now so we all gd.

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A male reader, dirtball United States +, writes (22 December 2010):

dirtball agony auntI hate to tell you this, but he's right not to trust other guys. Still, if he trusts you then this should not be an issue.

Then again, if you really want to piss him off send me a PM and I'll give you my PSN ID so you can have another guy friend on there. LMAO. I'm not on very much though.

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A female reader, Flutterfly United Kingdom +, writes (22 December 2010):

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Flutterfly agony auntthey are all guys. i know all of them coz we work with them. he always uses the he trusts me 100% its other men he trust. they dont just want to be friends he says. he will get over it. i just dont like the waiting for us to be back to the way we normally are. thanks for agreeing with me

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A male reader, dirtball United States +, writes (22 December 2010):

dirtball agony auntHe's just bitching because it's another guy. Like you're going to find lots of girls out there to be friends with on the PSN... *shakes head* If you check his list I can pretty much guarantee they're all guys. Why? Because very few women are into video games enough to take it that far.

He's over reacting. You got a friend invite from someone you played an online game with. Whoop de doo! Tell him you'll just use his profile then and delete yours. Problem solved.

Tell him his insecurity is flattering, but also a huge turn off. He should trust you. If he doesn't, then why is he even with you?

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