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*iverangel
writes:I met my friend about three years ago and we've become closer and closer over the years. All my friends used to comment on the sexual tension between the two of us and he always spoils me, buying me things and treating me really nice. About a month ago we kissed and since then we've slept on numerous occasions. I'm completely and madly in love with everything about him. He's so incredibly charming, funny, smart and he's mad, completely unpredictable.. But he's been with his girlfriend for almost four years. He says he's never cheated on her before - although I don't know whether or not to believe it? He's got all the personality traits of a player.. and he's always out and about.. But there's a part of me which is praying he's telling the truth. And that he might love me too. Is it something I should, or could, speak to him about? Or should I just accept that he's with someone else and try to stop me and him being intimate in the future?
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reader, rcn  +, writes (22 December 2010):
 You've already been intimate? He says he's never cheated? Your right, he sounds like someone who will tell you what you want to hear to get what he wants. If he's serious about you, and if he loves you, why is he with his girlfriend? He doesn't leave her because he wants both of you, which should send you red flag warning signs. If he can do this between both of you, if he was with you, would there be someone else on the side as well? Try talking to him. See where you stand. He needs to make a choice, instead of being with two at the same time. That's just wrong, and it's confusing because you don't know what his intent is or what may happen down the road.
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