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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (31 August 2010):
 Sounds like the silly one is the one you're hooked up with.
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reader, Lauramoore90  +, writes (25 August 2010):
Lauramoore90 is verified as being by the original poster of the question LazyGuy ...I loved that response hahaha x
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (25 August 2010):
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If you ate me out for every time I faked an orgasm with you, you would have a lot of catching up to do.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (25 August 2010):
 I agree he was hinting in a OH so NOT subtle way for you to give him a BJ.... Just a bad attempt at hinting.. and humor.. Let it go.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2010): Yes; what is there to be offended by?
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reader, person12345 +, writes (25 August 2010):
 He's either saying he's watched a lot of porn or he wants a lot of blow jobs. I think he was trying to make a joke though.
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reader, Lauramoore90 +, writes (25 August 2010):
Lauramoore90 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHaha!! Not the nicest way to go about it I think x
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (25 August 2010):
 I think he was just looking/hoping for a blow job. Just gave it his best shot. I don't think there's anything to be offended by.
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reader, Lauramoore90 +, writes (25 August 2010):
Lauramoore90 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionMaybe, but he knows its an uncomfortable topic for me ...so I don't get why he would say that. Thanks for your help :-)
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2010): That was a callous thing to say, no don't think you are being silly. Does he usually talk like that to you? Is he usually respectful and this is a one time out of the blue comment?
Men often joke around with girls. Especially if they are spending alot of time with you, their guy talk might come to light in your presence, perhaps as a substitue for spending real time with the boys. I don't know. But I think that comment was just vulgar.
Its hard to reprimand someone and expect them to change for being consciously disrespectful. I mean he knows what he is doing. But you need to speak up, at least let him know that you will not tolerate it. Say sternly, "I don't like that you speak to me like that. So please don't do it again." Hopefully he will get the point.
And if he keeps doing it start pulling back from the relationship cause you don't deserve to be spoken to like that. If he thinks you aren't blowing him enough now, if he keeps talking like that, show him that you won't be blowing him at all.
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker +, writes (25 August 2010):
 In the absence of context it's hard to say, but it sounds to me like he was trying to be funny. Maybe you are over-reacting?
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