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writes:hi i am in a bit of a pickle my dad is 42 and his best fried is 38 i was introduced to him when i was 12 but now i am 18 i am a adult and my feelings to him have got stronger he is single.i think he likes me too he comes over to our house all the time and my dad treats him like a brother my dad trust his best friend i dont want to betray my dads trust but can i really make these feelings go away ?the other night my dad went to work and his best friend (lets call him BF) was at our house and stayed the night my dad was on nights so it was just me and BF i the house alone i could feel the sexual tension there.we are really close i really am unsure what to do please help me i really could do with advice on what to do..P.S when my dad was at work last week he gave me a massage and we just talked for hours untill we was both tired we fel asleep on the couch i knew my dad was home at 10 am so i had to be awake before then..well i awoke to this great sensation of stroking my leg i woke up in the shock to find it was BF.i didnt stop him because i found it was only 7 30 so we snuggled on the couch and we both left it at that ..i think he wants me and i know i want him but i am unsure i just need some advice please help
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reader, sexytiff  +, writes (27 August 2010):
well girl my dad best friend,no way...he just want to play u baby get on with it..tel him u r 2 young and also u r my dads bestfriend....u goto b kidden me..or tell ur dad.bye
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanx to every one who has answered you really all made me think about what i was doing but well i honestly do't know .. am still really unsure if i want to lose my dad forever
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reader, maverick494  +, writes (26 August 2010):
This is a really BAD idea. Not to mention selfish.
Look, I get you. I like older guys too and at his age, he might look very good. But it's just wrong to do this.
And you know it too. So why be selfish and let this happen while you know FULL WELL what the consequences will be. Girl, you're flirting with disaster and acting all innocent over it.
That's why he picked you. You're easily manipulated. And probably a lot better looking than the average woman his age.
Call it off. One of you ought to have enough common sense and if he doesn't have it, doesn't mean that you don't.
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reader, natasia +, writes (25 August 2010):
 This guy is way too old for you at the moment, and he should know better. Yes, of course he wants you, but he shouldn't have you, and I'm sure your dad would set him straight on that in an instant.
You are very vulnerable because you are so young and you don't know anything about these new feelings you are experiencing. I don't know what to advise you because I don't think you will listen, because the pull to him is so strong. But if you really do want advice, stop seeing him and stop being on your own with him, and find a boy your age if you can. It would be a total disaster at the moment if anything happened with this man, and I'm sure would hurt your Dad a lot.
If you were 28 and he was 48 it would be a bit different, as you would be older and know what you were doing, but still, it is a big age difference.
This guy should be behaving differently towards you, but unfortunately he isn't - so you have to be the one to pull away. You won't regret it, but you very probably will regret it if you let him get closer.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2010): almc is wrong, you can help who you fall for. When it's wrong, it's wrong and you shouldn't act upon it.
I'm not saying you're not interested, and that he's not interested, but he's known you since you were a little girl. Still sounds like a perv!
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reader, almc  +, writes (25 August 2010):
If you like him come on out with it, let him know, your older now and you can make up your own mind. Just remember that he is your dads best friend and if your dad finds out, he might go crazy. But in the end you can't help who you want. But make sure you rap it up :) good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2010): the man sounds like a perv.
Stay away from him, and date a guy your own age. You're only going to get hurt in the long run!
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (25 August 2010):
 You want to have sex with a guy who's old enough to be your dad? Think about it, do you really want to jeopardize your dad's friendship with this guy, they're best friends! If you do sleep with him and your dad finds out then your dad will be going to jail for beating the snot out of someone who he thought was his best friend. This guy is too old for you..next time he tries gets touchy feeling with you, move or tell him you don't like him doing that. Even though you're of legal age, and people will argue age is just a number this guy is too much of a cradle robber border line sex offender to me.(even though it's legal)
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