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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:My friend is currently going out with a guy(her first boyfriend ever) who is a complete womaniser, but she has absolutely no idea.I was told about his reputation by another friend, he uses the exact same 'romantic' dating plan, gets what he wants, and then leaves the girl after a month or so, this has apparently happened with 12+ girls. I'm not sure what to do, I don't want to let her go on thinking he is romantic when he is putting on an act, but I'm not sure if I should get involved either, or how to tell her, in case she doesn't want to hear it, or thinks I'm jealous or something along those lines. she's so happy right now, I feel like I would be ruining her relationship if I say anything....any advice would be greatly appreciated!
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reader, Yos  +, writes (25 August 2010):
 She's your friend. Tell her right away. But don't tell her what to do: only exactly what you heard about him and where you heard it.
Do you know of his exes? You could try asking them too
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (25 August 2010):
 If you have that piece of information then it would be wise to share it..here's what could happen if you tell her..She'll be mad you told her then go into denial about it saying those sources aren't valid or that's the past he could have changed. Or she could be like "Oh my god really?" have a talk with him and he'll deny every bit of it like the man whore he is. Lastly, she could believe you and decide to end it before it goes any further. We'd love her to choose this option but chances are it won't happen. She's probably going to continue dating him till he does it to her then lesson learned. We all do this. It's your duty as her friend to tell her, if you were her would you want to know?
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