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I'm becoming desperate for sex!

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Question - (25 August 2010) 14 Answers - (Newest, 27 August 2010)
A female Australia age 30-35, anonymous writes:

i think im starting to become desperate for sex....is that possible after having sex alot with your ex...after not having sex can you begin to need to have sex.....i haven't had sex for only 3 months nearly and basically everything i read about a guy being married upset about his wife or something i always wanna meet the guy and just have sex. i dont know whats wrong. im so horny but i dont wanna be a major slut. i dont know what to do about it.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2010):

As smiliek said as regrads to masterbating in the shower. Touch yourself until it feels good, or buy a water proof toy from Ann Summers.

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A male reader, Jeseh. Kenya +, writes (26 August 2010):

Jeseh. agony auntIf he cheated on you with another girl he doesnt deserve you & dönt worry you will find another boy who will love you.

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A female reader, Jesc United States +, writes (26 August 2010):

Jesc agony auntYou could always go to a sex shop.

Ask for a water proof vibrator(Which I fancy more)

They are normally take two double a batteries.

Really there are SOOOOO Many options out there that I can not explain. Just go to one.

You could even go to the website www.adameve.com

I hear a lot of good things from my friends about the website.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2010):

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i know that he wont have sex anyways because he is with another girl now and im so confused because he told me that he didn't wanna tell me if he loved me or not because he was still with that girl. now im confused. i dont think im actually desperate i think i just miss it i guess. yeh i know its only 3 months but i used to do it with himm during the week and on the weekend alot and now i haven't at all. i just miss him i suppose :(

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2010):

i find this post a little bit sad to be honest. I can't believe that you can't go without sex for 3 months! try being a army girlfriend, 3 months is nothing. trust me. Stop being desperate and concentrate on something else, you are too young to be worrying about not getting any.

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A female reader, Alittlebroken United Kingdom +, writes (25 August 2010):

Alittlebroken agony auntDon't start going around and acting desperate... Get some toys! I got an amazing vibrator from ann summers, if you're inexperienced you'll soon learn! And there is so much porn out there these days, you'll find something you like!

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A female reader, natmarie United Kingdom +, writes (25 August 2010):

natmarie agony auntI know how you feel, and it can be veryu frustating! You must put things into place -eg: Dildo, toys, porn mags, etc. Just try not to call him. !!

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A female reader, smiliek Australia +, writes (25 August 2010):

smiliek agony aunthands? Touch yourself til it feels good. Or perhaps buy something, im sure there'd be some that are waterproof. Good luck

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2010):

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what suggestions do you have for masterbating in the shower?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2010):

Yes your body is used to sex and wants more. Get a variety of toys and go out on the pull for guys? Just be safe. Have fun :-)

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A male reader, Jeseh. Kenya +, writes (25 August 2010):

Jeseh. agony auntIt seems you loved your ex so much but three mounths is a very short time people have gone for years without sex.but you can mastrbate when you cant handle it.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2010):

Your body has become used to having sex and now that there's suddenly none, your body is getting a bit.... frustrated.

Maybe you should take a trip to Ann Summers and pick out a wee friend for your bedroom to help get ride of some of the frustration your feeling.

If you're living with your parents then maybe you could masterbate in the shower.

I just think you need a little self-relief and then these urdges will die down.

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A female reader, Jesc United States +, writes (25 August 2010):

Jesc agony auntHave you tried FWB?

i mean if you are really desperate to have sex I think that's as far away as being a slut.

I really don't know. When I am horny and need a release I just turn to masturbation.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2010):

You're young, I'm sure theres other horny people who attend your school. The thing not to do is go to your ex & ask for sex.

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