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writes: Hey, im on my friend's account, and im 14.....i just started my freshman year of high school two days ago, and i think i found someone who is showing signs of liking me, but im not sure. He's definitely older, and i see him at lunch because he sits at the table next to us. i noticed him looking at me every few seconds...he looked like he wanted something...truthfully i dont think it's a very good desire either. he switched places with his friend so that he was in my straight line of view. i dont know if he likes me or what, but im afraid to approach him. he's kind of emo, he's mean to some people, and he's going to be a junior next year, so i feel intimidated. should i let him approach me?? what does he want? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, VikkiDec1 +, writes (26 August 2010):
Well nobody can know exactly what he wants, but do you like him? You said he can be mean and he gives u bad looks, so do u really wanna approach him? Your still very young and theres so many great guys out there that u will meet. But if ur interested in this guy, then I would wait until he makes a move. If a guy wants to get to know a girl, he will do something about it. For now, just open up ur options and be confident in front of guys in ur school. Guys love when girls are confident in themselves and plays hard to get at first.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2010): It sounds silly but i think you need to ignore him. Don't return glances or stare at him or mention him. If a boy geniunly wants to know you, they will make that effort.
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