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writes:Hi. I'm a bit confused.. I dont normal dream nor remember then, but for the last 3 days I have been having strange dreams.. The first night I dreamt my work place, people and building where located in a space ship.. We landed at this place where one could buy things like a market place.. I then went to buy a wedding ring, there where many but the one I bought was gold in colour and a whole lot of diamonds, the people I bought it from, male and female, were in some kind of a sexual act.. When I got back to the spaceship my boss was on about that I cant marry my current boyfriend there was no way.. That day in reality, my boyfriend`s exwife and I where talking over mail, and then she asked me about her wedding ring if I have seen it around my boyfriend`s house.. She bought her own ring before they married, just like I did in the dream. Just randomly.. The next night I dreamt I was at a wedding, a coworker of mine is getting married soon, in the dream it was suppose to be her wedding but I was getting married, the wedding never happened but preparing for the wedding was going on, people were getting ready and sitting in their places..talking and laughing people I knew, family of mine and my boyfriend`s family, close people we love.. Out of the blue there was this women that no one knew and feared a lot which was wearing green that stood.. And then the dream ended.. Does anyone maybe know what this can mean, i'm really confused..
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2010): Just a wild guess here...
You have pressures or desires to marry, and have a recurring theme of it bieng in the presence of those important in your life. But it seems a bit way off to you, unreachable or not approved by important people in your life. THere is something deeper that you feel is interfering with your hopes of marriage. It could be his conncetion to his ex, or unfinished business elsewhere.
I wouldnt read into it too much. My guess is you just feel a mild lack of control over something that you would like to have happen. Try to gain more control or clarity in yor relationship with your BF and see where that takes you. Just talk to him. Often, vagueness in a relationship will cause us to suspect there are problems or obstructions when there really are none.
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (25 August 2010):
 It means coincidences happen and so do dreams. Dreams don't have to mean anything, it could just mean that maybe your subconscious picked up on something that you didn't really take notice of, it could just be a strange fantasy of some sort. Dreams mean all sorts of things but they don't always matter.
I hope that helps.
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reader, Dorothy Dix  +, writes (25 August 2010):
Hi there. Your're right, it does seem like a lot is going on there. I can't define it's meaning accurately, without knowing you.
However, over the years I personally, have found it really helpful to write all my dreams down in an exercise book. I have found that the most powerful dreams I have had are always remembered very clearly by me. They seem to happen just before I am due to wake up, so that I remember them vividly.
You will often find that dreams actually correspond to what is going on in your life at the time. They sometimes give you a glimpse of your future.
I really recommend you do this, and write the day and date of the dream on the first line. Then write every detail of the dream down as it happened, as much as you can remember.
Often dreams appear to be rather abstract in nature, and a bit unreal. However there is often some thread of meaning that runs throughout the dream that seems quite significant. You might not see this at first, but later on in the day or in a few days, it might come to you - what it all means. So in a day or two, have another read of the dream (in your book), and see if you can work it out.
Often dreams tell us something about our lives that we don't seem to get during our waking hours. So when we refuse to listen to our intuition during the day, it comes to us in the night in the form of dreams where we are forced to take notice. Dreams can often be a vital clue to our future.
Try it anyway. In fact every time you have a dream that you remember, record it in your exercise book (and date it). After a while, you might start to see a pattern forming. It's a really useful tool in solving some of Life's problems.
Best Wishes.
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