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female
age
51-59,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend doesn't do special things for me. My boyfriend and I have been in a long distance relationship and have been together for 5 years. We care about eachother alot but he doesn't do special things for me, i.e. send me flowers, gifts or even a card on my bday or christmas or do cute thoughtful things to make me feel special. He says being with one another should be enough but I notice he makes such a big deal about his friends' bdays but doesn't express the same for mine. Am I asking too much or is he just selfish?
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reader, ScreammStarr  +, writes (25 August 2010):
I don't think your asking for too much . I mean, being in a long distance relationship is hard enough to deal with . No kissinq , huggin , no physical contact ! There's no physical affection theree he should at leat send flowers . Your not being shelfish , he is the one that needs to step up !
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2010): Hang on he doesn't even get you a card on your birthday or Christmas? Oh man, how often to do you see each other?
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reader, Kenj  +, writes (25 August 2010):
 I would say hes being a bit selfish, he doesnt have to go mad with gifts and flowers but the odd one every now and again keeps a relationship a happy one as it shows he would be thinking of you.
I often supprise my girlfriend by having flowers delivered
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