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30-35,
*imisoph3
writes:theres this guy i really like but theres too many mixed signals and i cant read him please helpi like this guy in one of my classes i dont know what attracted me to him his cute and nice and confident.at the first two days of school i noticed whenever i look at him he looks back..but some days he wouldnt even make eye contact and never smiles when he does look at me its just blank. i changed my hair style and the first day back he screamed out that he liked it had a big smile and had a thumbs up..i dont know if he was happy because a few moments ago he had spoken to a girl that i strongly dislike or if its just a flirty thing cause most guys that dont know a girl wouldnt scream out i love your hairtoday we were at the computer lab he sat with his friends and i sat with mine when he was about to go to the bathroom i looked at him he looked back i turned quickly around and he left.then when he came back he saw me again staring at him..also at the beginning of the first week every time i would walk and go somewhere around the class room he would look at me and his friends would as well.i'm confused one day he doesnt even look at me or has any interest then the next he stares non stop.i want to apporach him but i dont know how to do ithow do i talk to him? how do i make him interested in me? and is there any chance that as in right now he is interested in me?
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (25 August 2010):
 Guys don't have time for mixed signals, they're too simple for that crap. He may like you and he might not. Go up next time, introduce yourself, and start talking about whatever, be like "oh you like my hair that one day but do you like it this way too?" Flirt, smile a lot, laugh, you can't make him interested in you but you can let him know you're into him then see where it goes.
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reader, Dorothy Dix  +, writes (25 August 2010):
Hi there. It seems like he's interested. But like most very young men, it's probably a confidence thing.
He probably would like to come up to you and say hi, but is not sure how you might react. He is probably afraid of rejection. Believe me, that is most people's greatest fear - the fear of rejection (especially by the opposite sex).
If you like him, and it seems the feeling is mutual, why don't you go up to him and say hi one day. At the very least, it will break the ice. He will then know that you do like him and would like to be friends. But keep it light at first and just get to know each other, likes and dislikes, interests, music, favourite TV shows, movies - anything at all. This is always a good starting point. Then see how it all goes before you decide whether to start seeing each other as boyfriend & girlfriend. There's plenty of time for that sort of thing.
And remember - nothing ventured nothing gained. It's worth a shot.
Good luck and best wishes.
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